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Hi, I'm Annie.

I'm a mother of 3,

spouse to G,

writer of things,

Phd student,

sister,

daughter,

and lucky friend

living in Boston.

Basic Joy = my attempt to document all of this life stuff, stubbornly looking for the joy in dailiness. 

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Mama, Ph.D.: Women Write About Motherhood and Academic LifeMountains Beyond Mountains: The Quest of Dr. Paul Farmer, a Man Who Would Cure the WorldThe Sweetness at the Bottom of the PieThe Island: A NovelThe PassageSecret Spaces of Childhood

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Entries in small pleasures (41)

Friday
Sep162011

Oh, please

...let me be this awesome when I'm older. Please, please, please.

 

This made my day, truly. (My own dad [though, let it be noted, he is much younger that this] enjoys creative license on song lyrics, too.)

Happy Friday!

Tuesday
Aug302011

Small joys today

I've been pretty eeyore-ish lately. I can see that, looking through my last handful of posts. But there are still those daily glimmers, some small joys to notice and celebrate:

~ stumbling upon The Waltons while Maddy and I cleaned out our closets and sorted through old clothes the last two afternoons. So wholesome, so days-gone-by. I always thought Olivia was a beautiful, wise mom and had a little crush on Jim-Bob (hey! he could fix lots of things!). I still dream of a white farmhouse on a mountain...

~ my newly-weeded out closet

~ my sunny office/crafty room, formerly Maddy's bedroom (+ she's happy to now have the former studio for her room):

~ installing long-owned items with lingering good (inactive) intentions, like these ledges that are still works in progress but much better on the wall than in the box:

~ finding quick solutions to my problems today via Facebook: a dog sitter and a CSA crate picker upper. Who knew that all I needed to do was post a status and all my wishes could come true? Thanks, Facebook friends. 

~ watching this video, which makes me want to (a) join in and (b) get some vintage dresses (let's bring back hats! yes?) (via kotke.)

So that's how I'm trying to outrun Eeyore who is, after all, a slow small donkey. Not to mention fictional.
What small joys have you found today?

Saturday
Aug272011

Now I see...

Sam learned this on the ukelele for Maddy because it's one of her favorites.
I made him re-enact singing it for her for the first time because my camera didn't catch the audio the first time.
Hence, the hint of reluctance on his part.

I adore it.

(Via the awesome 8mm app & my iphone camera.)

p.s. Sorry about the finger sneaking in there. Also, church is already canceled tomorrow, thanks to Irene. Everyone stay safe out there!

Tuesday
Aug242010

There's something about Maddy

We've still got two weeks of summer left in these parts.  Miss M is finding all sorts of kooky & kicky ways to brighten her days. Yesterday it was the fort-making, complete with music, lights, fan, art supplies, a soft nest (she slept in it last night), food, books, and phone. Proving that you're never too old for a good fort with white lights.

 "Rules of Maddy's party fort:

1. Marvel at the wonder from a distance, please!

2. No biting pillows or blankets (you know who you are. *Louie*)

3. If your name isn't Louie or Maddy and you weren't formally invited into the fort, guess what? you weren't invited [this is a bit of a little-red-hen situation. no one would help her make it.]

4. When music is playing, lights are on, and fan is fanning, fort is occupied.

5. No harming or ta(m)pering with the fort or else you won't have chairs at dinner tonight.

6. Rules spontaneously come up by Maddy must be followed in the fort.

Thanks, the tenant"

 

. . . 

On vacation, Maddy came across a card & quote at a museum gift shop that called her name:

"I am fairly certain that given a cape and a nice tiara I could save the world"

Last week she and her best partner-in-crime decided to go ahead and equip themselves & save the world.  These are their costumes (plus scooters, some monster spray, and a lot of chutzpah):

I love this Alice shirt

She is hilarious. Man, I love that girl. 

. . .

 Listen:  Sweet Disposition, The Temper Trap

Tuesday
Aug172010

moments.

Isn't this lovely?  

Moments from Everynone on Vimeo.

I think yes.

I'm back, I'm cranking up the computer. Prepare for the deluge of posts (once I get over the techo-reluctance I acquired on vacation, that is).

Tuesday
May252010

The pull

Here's what gets me out on my (somewhat) daily 4-miler: the scenery is both a distraction and a payoff.

Join me?

Fields of green and gold

 Shady, winding roads (the better to think on, my dear)

Sunlight through the trees (and, oh!, the hill...huff, huff)

And then my favorite part: the scene opens up and the sky is wide

(reminds me of home) 

What a vista. Chat with a woman in the field about a bird's egg she's found.  Say hi to the horses.

Lean over, hands on knees.  Breathe. Stand up, retrace steps, and head back home. (Downhill now!)

 

Splay on the grass for a few minutes' recovery and sport a red exertion face for the next hour.

Want to host a tour in your neck of the woods? Post scenes from a walk/run/ride around your neighborhood and leave the link in the comments here. Armchair travel, my favorite!

Saturday
Dec122009

Snippets + verbs

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Shivered.  It's cold 'round here.

Read.  I loved this essay by Mental Tesserae.  And this passage from One Magpie.  Kindred thoughts in both of these.

Wrote.  Posted on Segullah this week, a (religious) piece about Mary and her "how shall this be?" response. (If you've read this blog for more than two years, you might recognize the first paragraph or so...) Also, I've played around with the formatting for this blog. I've been having so much fun...like moving the furniture around without all that effort and floor scraping.

Watched.  Had a long-awaited movie date with G this afternoon. It's been ages since we were able to get out just the two of us...ever since our girls acquired social lives and obligations. (Although last night we did go out to dinner. Sam came with us and was a wonderful dinner companion.  Still. Not really a date.)   We stopped off at the Danish Pastry House on the way home to prepare for St. Lucia Day tomorrow--hooray! Now I'm catching up on emails and watching It's a Wonderful Life.  "George Bailey, I'll love you 'til the day I die." (Someday I hope my kids understand how George Bailey-like their dad is, in all the right ways.  Because he is, lucky us.)

Delayed. I have a take-home final due next week.  No headway there. Also, we haven't yet taken our Christmas card photo. Ditto no Christmas tree...hopefully Monday's the day for that.

Savored + celebrated.  Feeling really content to take my time with the holidays this year.  Each day I'm doing a little bit and shunning any guilt or agendas (trying to, anyway). So far: books, candles, garlands.  Next up: tree, nativities, presents.  Bit by bit, especially until finals are over.

. . .

Best of .09: Food.  Hmm. I think I'll dub this the year of Really Good Chocolate. Truffles from Burdick's. And Nancy sent me some decadent chocolate from a chocolatier in her Brooklyn neighborhood: the really good stuff, with interesting flavors like pepper and salt and chiles.  It's not new to me but I upped it a notch.  How 'bout you? Best new food of 09? 

Tuesday
Dec082009

Pieces of peace

1. Every Sunday, around 2:30.  Sunday nap. Weekly dose of peace and contented breathing, right there. *Sigh.* I feel peace just thinking about it. 

. . .

2. In August we took a short hike in the Adirondacks.  After a bit, we came to a clearing and the happy sound of water.  There had been some bickering as we climbed but now the kids scrambled out across the shallow falls, exploring and delighting in our find.  G and I sat at the edge, in the sun, quiet.  It's the spot I first think of when I think of a moment of peace from the year.  For that moment, we were together, the water was cool on my feet, and there was peace there in the pause between climbing up and hiking out. (And the entire upstate NY trip was a pause before the chaos of the fall schedule began, too.) 

. . .

Best of .09: Day 8: Moment of Peace. An hour or a day or a week of solitude. What was the quality of your breath? The state of your mind? How did you get there?  Join in the Best of 09 challenge here.

Monday
Nov302009

Where's Rob?!

This will make your day, a real-life Where's Waldo (except Rob)at a Knick's game. All kinds of wonderful:

 

Seriously.

I need to find a group who will do things like this with me.

Except, how would I be able to keep a straight face?

Thursday
Oct152009

XXXX
























Okay.
I'm forty.
Just like Sesame Street
and (I learned today) Monty Python
and Brady Bunch
and people landing on the moon
and Woodstock

So far so good!
Yesterday (and a little bit this morning, to be honest)
was about the melancholy end of 30s.
Today is about the beginning of my 40s.
I have heard that it is a fabulous time and
I am going to embrace it with enthusiasm.

Do I feel a fun midlife crisis coming on? Maybe. What if I...
Cut my hair (or different color)
Train for a marathon (and, okay, run it)
Take up painting
Write a novel
Walk or bike across England
Stop blogging (I know. But maybe.)
Get a mammogram (Monday. Short range is good, too.)
Take my kids out of school and book a trip around the world with them (I wish.)
Buy some art.
Finish my PhD.
Don't finish my PhD.
Care less about what others think.
Laugh loudly.
Prune the unnecessary stress from my life.
Wander more, wonder more.
Connect.

* * *

Happy birthday to me #1:
Swell Season (the duo from the movie Once) are coming out with a new album next week and, to celebrate, NPR is streaming the entire album. Hooray!
Here's to finding more good music in the next decade!

Happy Birthday to me, #2
(saw this on marathonbird's twitter this morning)

I'm going to give myself more silliness in my life.

Happy Birthday to me, #3

Remember the viral video of the dancing/singing DoReMi in the train station?
I just found out that friend is creating a similar public art event in a town square in Guatemala next month.
So cool.
That just makes me happy.

Happy Birthday to me, #4
I'm loving all of the happy birthday wishes via email and facebook!
So lovely to connect with friends.

Happy Birthday to me #5
I have to go to class tonight
but tomorrow G is taking off work
and we're celebrating then with
lunch+museum+movie+together

Life is good.

* * *

painting Alma y Corazon by Cassandra Barney via